Setting The Record Straight: Men Pursue Women. Women Are Pursued.

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Ladies, give me credit, goddammit! At the very least you can acknowledge this and give me credit for trying. Men pursue women. They do not. Let me be very clear: women do not pursue.

I kept dismissing complaints from men so as to feminist advancements were leading to an unfair double standard. But they hold in reserve coming. Could it really be true? Something interesting happens every time I write a story about gender issues. Men I know, and many add I do not, reach out en route for me to tell me they air wronged — silenced, even. I raised an eyebrow and moved on. Although as frustrating as the pushback felt, it became increasingly obvious that around was no denying the consistency, after that therefore validity, of the feelings so as to were being thrown at me. Acknowledging the validity of this sentiment, I began to wonder if silencing was legitimately what was going on. Accordingly I thought to really understand how misunderstood, robbed, wronged and silenced men felt, I should hand over the microphone to them.

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A small amount of other questions have provoked debates at the same time as intense, family dinners as awkward, creative writing as lurid , or movies at the same time as memorable. Still, the question remains unreciprocated. Daily experience suggests that non-romantic friendships between males and females are not only possible, but common—men and women live, work, and play side-by-side, after that generally seem to be able en route for avoid spontaneously sleeping together. In array to investigate the viability of accurately platonic opposite-sex friendships—a topic that has been explored more on the grey screen than in the science lab—researchers brought 88 pairs of undergraduate opposite-sex friends into…a science lab.

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