Experience: I’ve slept with 3000 men
Some things in life are better on repeat: Friendsperfectly sunny beach days, your trusty manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast. In short, your brain craves newness, and especially for women, your brain is very involved in your excitement and satisfaction. Exploration between the sheets amps up emotional intimacy and encourages partners to take risks and grow together. New sex positions will encourage you both to be more vulnerable with one another in—and outside of —the bedroom. In some cases, switching up positions might even be a must. There are SO many possibilities out there that your imagination might not have even thought up yet.
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